how much is too much?

I just have this question in my mind today... especially after an interesting conversation this morning. Just boggles my mind what people are going through in their lives. Everyone of us have our own struggles and issues and yet lots of people need support.. and how do we balance in giving the support.. What would Jesus do in this? That's my prayer today as I reflect and pray. May God gives me the strength and the creativity to know how to respond that pleases Him.